The safe
sex message is not getting through the
youth generation. the recent index figures show that young people are the most
affected and the infection rate is rife among the age of as young as 15 to 24.
Young girls
are the most vulnerable risky and most infected, often because they lack the
skill and confidence to negotiate safer sex.Older men of course are walking corpse
because they choose to sleep with young girls because this girls are ignorant
.Ignorant to demand safe sex but also ignorant about sex,they can’t tell you if
you are crap in bed, so you get released, use her for your sexual pleasure,buy a
cheap phone,cheap dates and move on.
Usually the
move on is to the next ignorant young girl or to your wife.I need however to
point out a very simple fact in English to the older man who’s more than happy
to bully an ignorant girl to have unprotected sex.IGNORANT by no means
innocent.she does know when she’s sleeping with a lousy older man and still has
sex with her mates more often than you think,bring you nasty things.she is ignorant
not innocent.she cant know the phone you got her was you pocket change,doesn’t
understand the few drinks are no big deal to your world;the crap apartment you
rent for her is the least of your financial burdens
She’s
ignorant about a lot of things, however please note she is not innocent.NO
matter how cute she looks, she is definitely having sex with her agemate for
funand you for the perksThe reason you must, now more than ever insist on a
condom and to the young men who say no to condom.it as stopped surprising
me,with several baby mamas too young and a sheer terror of sexual transmitted
diseases(STD)spark a true engagement of safe sex.How come HIV doesn’t?
The Y
generation young men age from 18 to25,chances are he has never seen anyone in
real life who had a full grown AIDS.We hardly seen emaciated guys and dead
looks in the eyes because of the drug that exists.and ads show active and
attractive people loving life.so, young males,HIV isn’t such a big deal and as
such condoms use isn’t really a priority.
That is
until you hit them with something that will take their joy and life away like
babies and the sheer agony and pain of STD.and if we want to help our dear Y
generation we need to come up with communication that will truly speak to them
rather than to nicely crafted and sanitized words which are used by donors to
the young virile and reckless
So until
communication comes along here is what you young man you need to know the girl
you having sex with has no idea how to negotiate for sex with a condom-she
doesn’t have the skill,the experience or confidence to.that means she didn’t do
it with the older man she’s sleeping wit or the other guy she’s having sex with
as she looks for love.Young men have sex for pleasure: young women have sex
hoping it will lead to love and commitment.
If she
didn’t negotiate with the last guy she had sex with for a condom,chances are
she wont with you.She doesn’t know how to.That means you either going to be a
victim of her inexperience and ignorance or you’ll simply make a selfish move
and protect yourself,To hear any man play victim and whine about even the after
response on STDs is enough to be declared persona granter
The power is
in your hands and if you cant take responsibility for your sexuality and your
sexual organs,then suffer!!!
