DANGEROUS GAME WITH SEX TOY!!!!!!!!!!!

During my vacation i met with my old friend as we catch up for the long time on see,i noticed he was troubled and he was willing to share...His problem was to do with toys,something i had never thought of.....

He began by stating that early this years his wife had finally landed a long-sought promotion.But the promotion,he said was not without cost.She started spending a lot of time with some single women at the office,many of whom,according to him were wild and immoral.
His attempt to discourage her fell on deaf ears,not long into her promotion,she started going out every night neglecting him.Though they had earlier agreed to settle down and have children's,immediately after her promotion things changed.she told him that she had a right to her body and felt that it was not yet time to start a family....
Through his friends advised him to foot down as the man of the house,he opted out for dialogue and consultations.One day out of the blues,she introduced the use of sex toy into their marriage bed and although he had never used them he was very excited.At last he thought she was beginning to develop interest in sex,for a while things were great and the toys made her more interested in sexual games.He even imagined is was just a matter of time before they got a child,then out of the blue his wife withdraw from him again.She completely avoided the bedroom and argued that there was more to life than sexual satisfaction.
He noticed that his wife was spending too much time in the bathroom,When he was her happy place where she could relax,pray and write stuff in her journal.Though he found her explanation,strange he decided to not raise her and ignored the warning bells in his head.But last week he discoverde something that no man would want to find in his own home.he decided to come home unexpected with the intention of surprising his wife with a dinner at her favorite restaurant in town.

He walked into the bathroom only t her woman lost in ecstasy with with the sex toys.So engrossed was she that she never heard him walking in,that she would rather satisfy herself with toys was a bitter pill to swallow.His first reaction was to walk out on her and thier marriage but she pleaded with him and promised never to do it again.Nevertheless,he is still a troubled man,all i can say to him is,though sex toys can be used in some situation to help in the marital bed,obsession with them is not healthy.In thier case proffesional help would be the way to go.But should he feel that he cannot subject to a counselor,then for his own good he should run to the hills.No one can measure up to fantasy.............
           WHAT WOULD BE YOUR ADVICE FOR HIM?

WOMEN ARE JUST AS VISUAL AS MEN!

"We want to eye the candy",a close female friend said,it was about the forthcoming safaricom sevens at nyayo national stadium.And this made me think and get down and write this blog

Men seem to think that women don't mind their potbellies,flabby behinds and man boobs....on the contrary,women are just as visual as men,and appreciate something nice and firm to stare at.This happen as the summer Olympics come to an end,those exiciting picture and the yummy rugby players showing the players image worked for chic and host of many ladies who won't dare miss the safari sevens to eye the candy.
Men (i)include we think otherwise but women too are visual creatures and they like to ogle,leer,dissect and analyse the male body.They may not have much to the work with as has,but here are few things thet am told they look at.The undisputed attention drawer is gluteus maximus-otherwise known as "the butt",there is something so primal,sensual and sexy about looking at a compact well-constructed behind,espicially when its encased in a pair of fine jeans
Their primordial instincts fuse with the visual desire,since they consider a well-shaped behind the perfect launch for thrust and tumble that comes with pleasurable pursuit....though scientists say that a firm butt is critical for sending those vital millions of male seed out on an assigment to locate and fuse with the elusive ovum.
So they don't fancy men who have excessively skinny bums,mainly because they look like they should be fed not fed upon.They also know that those skinny bums comes with sharp pelvis bones that can cause massive injuries to soft female tissues.In the same breath,am told overabundant behinds are somehow synonymous with obesity and sub-standard performance to make the matter worse,some men even have hips(oh may)and from the rear view one cannot make the proper gender distinction,which can be very harrowing.Of course,there is little you can do as a man if nature gave you hips,but perhaps a few squats would not hurt. 
The perfect butt accessory and ogle factor number two,is the hip line.This is that line that leads from the the hip bone down to the pelvis,and that make a rather interesting "V"shape.There is something very raw,vircle and hot about a man's v-line....never knew about that and you?.And to prove this ladies and gents who don't believe what am saying would do well to watch D'Angelo's how does it feel video.This line only appears in full relief in athletic and fit guys,and it looks even better above a well-toned behind,did i just say that not i is what am told and heard and researched
Once they have inspected the man's derriere,they like to have a full frontal inspection.This is where a fine,well-shaped chest does the magic,especially when it's paired with a firm and broad back.A nice chest spells confidence and many women visualize spending hours laying their head on such a chest,sadly on this side of Sahara men have misguidedly come to believe that plump,big belly teddy bear are what they(ladies) like;we even take this further and tell ourselves that an abundant girth is an indicator of wealth,meaning that what a woman loses out in ogling pleasure is made up for the term of financial generosity.
Even the human anatomy expects will say that a chest that is concealed by layers of adipose deposits conjures images of death by suffocation,so closer you are to six pack,the better for all concerned.Though women are professed chest lover and huggers,they do like moderation,some men violate this rule and pump so much iron that they look like johnny bravo on steroids(for reference,please see the bouncer at your favorite night club).Many of these super-size blokes wear very small,tight shirts to show off thier physiques.when they are not show off,these bulky misters are knoewn to spend hours preering and posing in front of the mirrors in the gym,only women are allowed to hog the mirriors,gentlemen.And those barrol-like chests need to go.
Strange as this might seem,they also look at a man's hands,they like strong,well-maintained and most importantly,clean-hands.They understand that most of as men are not yet to embrace the whole mani-pedi business,but their mind go into fantasy land the minute the spot a man who have nice,well fingers.And there is nothing more disgusting than those overgrown pinkie nails that men nurture under misguided notion that they give men an aura of sexiness;we couldn't be more wrong.if every man paid attention to having a good butt,strong chest and groomed hand would be a happier lot.And if all men came in the same package as sportsmen that would be nirvana.Given the effort women make to give men something to ogle at daily:I think this is enough challenge......