DANGEROUS GAME WITH SEX TOY!!!!!!!!!!!

During my vacation i met with my old friend as we catch up for the long time on see,i noticed he was troubled and he was willing to share...His problem was to do with toys,something i had never thought of.....

He began by stating that early this years his wife had finally landed a long-sought promotion.But the promotion,he said was not without cost.She started spending a lot of time with some single women at the office,many of whom,according to him were wild and immoral.
His attempt to discourage her fell on deaf ears,not long into her promotion,she started going out every night neglecting him.Though they had earlier agreed to settle down and have children's,immediately after her promotion things changed.she told him that she had a right to her body and felt that it was not yet time to start a family....
Through his friends advised him to foot down as the man of the house,he opted out for dialogue and consultations.One day out of the blues,she introduced the use of sex toy into their marriage bed and although he had never used them he was very excited.At last he thought she was beginning to develop interest in sex,for a while things were great and the toys made her more interested in sexual games.He even imagined is was just a matter of time before they got a child,then out of the blue his wife withdraw from him again.She completely avoided the bedroom and argued that there was more to life than sexual satisfaction.
He noticed that his wife was spending too much time in the bathroom,When he was her happy place where she could relax,pray and write stuff in her journal.Though he found her explanation,strange he decided to not raise her and ignored the warning bells in his head.But last week he discoverde something that no man would want to find in his own home.he decided to come home unexpected with the intention of surprising his wife with a dinner at her favorite restaurant in town.

He walked into the bathroom only t her woman lost in ecstasy with with the sex toys.So engrossed was she that she never heard him walking in,that she would rather satisfy herself with toys was a bitter pill to swallow.His first reaction was to walk out on her and thier marriage but she pleaded with him and promised never to do it again.Nevertheless,he is still a troubled man,all i can say to him is,though sex toys can be used in some situation to help in the marital bed,obsession with them is not healthy.In thier case proffesional help would be the way to go.But should he feel that he cannot subject to a counselor,then for his own good he should run to the hills.No one can measure up to fantasy.............
           WHAT WOULD BE YOUR ADVICE FOR HIM?